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Offline JMT

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So, here's the thing...
« on: March 07, 2018, 09:09:06 am »
With the break down in my relationship, I just can't do this anymore.  I'm absolutely broken, and I don't mean to be rude, but I couldn't give two shits about what happens here.  I won't be reading, and I won't be posting.  Just report anything you think doesn't belong, and I'll do my best to sort it out.

I'm sorry.  I know people go through worse things and maybe I'm a terrible human being for letting this break me, but I'm broken.  I loved that girl with all of my heart, and she loved me back...until she didn't.  Just typing that brings tears to my eyes.  She's not herself, and she's going through a lot of stuff, and she's doing things that are hard to forgive...but I do.  I want her back, and I can't have her back....not now anyway.

Anyway, please understand that I don't like this any I'm sorry.

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Re: So, here's the thing...
« Reply #1 on: March 07, 2018, 09:14:40 am »
Don't spend a moment worrying about the message board.  Real life is what matters. Best wishes to you, and I hope everything can get sorted out and put back together.

Take care, buddy.

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Re: So, here's the thing...
« Reply #2 on: March 07, 2018, 09:23:33 am »
Take care of yourself first.  You will be ok, but that will take time.  (((Hugs))) (ok trite, but the feeling is genuine)
It was all so different before everything changed.
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Re: So, here's the thing...
« Reply #3 on: March 07, 2018, 09:28:05 am »
waldoWords: buck-up! Spend some time with nature - get straight and come back harder.
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Re: So, here's the thing...
« Reply #4 on: March 07, 2018, 10:10:57 am »
Just know that we all appreciate what you've done with this forum. It's was and still is a well-needed alternative to where we were posting before.

I completely understand your pain when it comes to your relationship. When you put that much of yourself into someone and they leave, it feels like they take that part of you with them. Just know that part of you is not gone. You've created experiences that have added to you as a person. Those experiences don't leave with the person, but stay with you forever.

Work on you now. Create your own experiences. Do the things that you've wanted to do that were difficult or not possible with someone else. When the time is right, you'll begin creating experiences together with another again.

When it's dark, it's almost impossible to see, but you gain more from these experiences than you lose.
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