And the intrigue. I'm starting to think that he's innocent. Nobody guilty protests that much unless they're crazy.
In most of these cases its somewhere in between. Neither of them is "lying". People's interpretations of events are fluid and of course subjective and memory as
you probably are aware is at best inaccurate. We remember about 30% of an actual incident, then the remaining 70% we add on later. Its like a dream. When you wake up
you remember fragmented pieces of the dream then fill in the rest to have it make sense. We do that. We remember bits and pieces in our short term memory. Then when we transfer that short term memory into our long term memory we fill in the missing pieces. We don't know we do that. Its an automatic thing. Now when we lie deliberately the lie will be much more elaborate with conflicting time lines not the same time line.
Anyways a true pathological liar no one can catch. Innocent lying as I call it everyone does and its why on cross examination we lawyers look like geniuses making people seem mistaken. The tough thing is when as a therapist you sit down and try wade through fact and fiction. That line often never exists.
I think in this case its a matter of some young women looking for attention and either mad at Brown for treating them coldly and not as civilly as they would have wanted (common with fans) and Brown being socially inept or very poor in inter-personal skills. Neither side are liars. Both sides have equal reason to feel poorly treated.
Its very dangerous being publically known. It attracts people to you for "fan" behaviour. Fans usually place unrealistic projected thoughts and responses on to the target of their idolization and when its not returned they can get quite angry. We have seen that with stalkers and fans killing idols.
I think Brown may have been inept but the question remains whether he was deliberately abusive. One he can learn from to be more sensitive, the other well it would deal with possible criminal behaviour making it far more complex to deal with. The question asked of people with sexual behaviour is whether it was deliberate and pre-meditated or not. That's the starting point as well as whether it was physically violent or not.
The combination of physical violence with deliberate premeditated behaviour is the most serious followed by deliberate premeditated behaviour and non physical but abusive behaviour. Those are your no.1 and 2 in priority when dealing with sexual allegations.
If its as a result of non violent mutual communication errors, the preferred course of action is to deal with each party distinctly and privately and suprisingly they do not need to apologize to each other. They in fact need to be taught to understand what triggered their behaviour, what better ways there are to deal with the triggers and their behaviour and to forgive or apologize to themselves when they come to grips with what they could have done better.
The personality profile of Patrick Brown would suggest someone who had little social exposure to women in his formative years due to a speech impediment and so as he became an adult and now wore suits and compensated for those lonely years he would have been emotionally delayed in terms of dating and dealing with women. Certainly his hair cut suggested he was delayed in emotional development as was his
closeness to his sister which is not a bad thing but would suggest a shyness he needed help with and leaned on his sister for. Her seeing him as a perfect gentle boy would seem to show a protection imperative she learned to shield him from ridicule for his speech impediment.
I do think it was possible Brown missed signals, but to say he was a deliberate in sexual assault would not suit his profile. He has compensated for his insecurities by learning to speak eloquently and confronting directly his weakness and discussing it openly. That is something admirable. So people like that don't as a general rule act violently. Violence is as a general rule the expression of someone who has not compensated or been able to come to grips with a fear or unresolved issue which is not Brown's profile.
Everything I say of course is psychological speculation and only meant as conversation and to say neither side should be turned into a villain.