Call me old-fashioned but I don’t think getting a girl drunk and whipping down your pants can be considered flirting.
Agreed. I would never and have never done anything remotely like what Patrick is accused of doing. It's creepy. It's not quite
****, but it's sneaky, aggressive, and just plain rude & inappropriate.
You want sex? You don't show a woman your dick or jump on top of them and start forcing kisses. You flirt, then if the woman is receptive you go for 1st base, then if that's receptive you go for 2nd base etc until you get to home base. Guys who try to go directly to 2nd base etc. without getting the green light to even go to 1st base are a-holes. Never in my life have I tried to kiss someone without it being pretty clear, via body language, touching/holding hands etc, that the other person wanted it too.