I'm sorry you can't read but I never said that older women don't think younger guys are hot.
Yes you did, you said: As in almost none. I've never talked to a woman who had much interest in young men beyond looking. Usually when I hear 40 year old women talk about 20 year old men it's 'yeah, he's cute, but he's a baby."
Men say that to their wives, not to each other. And as I said, I'm not talking about having an ongoing relationship as in couples. A lot of men recognize that is problematic with a much younger women in terms of interests and maturity. That doesn't mean they don't want to **** the brains out of that 18 year old if only she'd let them.
This is what you said: Womens instincts, as I have posted earlier, are entirely different and they rarely have much sexual interest in young men. They have interest in an actual relationship with them even less often.
And I can say the same thing to you. Women may say that to you about not being interested (or maybe the women you know really aren't), but I've known plenty of women who said and thought differently. For fun or as relationships.
No question that if you're rich that makes up for a lot. But we see tons of fairly ordinary guys who are far from rich and not even that attractive having affairs with much younger women. Men are much more into going for young women than women are.
Lots of non-rich women have relationships with younger men as well. I'm just talking about the paradigm shift in society where women now work and have independence. Our social roles have changed. Along with that comes more of the same thing men have doing all their lives and that's dating/
**** younger than themselves.
There are lots of sites on the internet. That's meaningless.
No it's very relevant. You're the one adamantly saying women just aren't interested in younger men and the fact that there are half a dozen sites for doing just that means you're obviously wrong.
As for your psychology today article, yes, I don't dispute that there are probably more men than are interested in younger women than vice versa but it's not psychological issue so much as a sociological one.
If it were, tides would not be changing as the role of women change with us seeing more and more older women dating younger men.
In any case, your initial statement about women just not being into younger men is downright caca. Some women, most women even, maybe. But definitely not a general phenomenon and definitely not from a small cohort as the women you've talked to in life.
Here is a good read for you if you're interested.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/15/fashion/15women.html