SJ contacted me privately after we clashed over the Eliza Dushku thing. He was quite upset that I'd told him to "do a backflip into an empty pool". We patched things up, but he'd told me that he'd grown tired of the tone here-- constant personal attacks and hostility directed at him-- and decided he just wasn't having fun participating here anymore.
-k
It was getting pretty bad.....one or two people put the "Dumb" rating on everything he wrote. No explanation of why they thought it was dumb and no rebuttal.
I didn't agree with everything he said, but he always made his counter-points clearly and reasonably.
I think it started when one poster constantly disagreed with him by making out that he was a depraved lunatic with no morals or decency and then a couple others jumped on that bandwagon and he couldn't say anything without being attacked on a personal level.