Canadian Politics Today

  Am I wrong?

Dominant is not the same as strong.  I would say that I don't like 'dominant women'.

Schopenhauer believed opposites attract.  Do you ?

Sometimes yes, in some ways.  Like as I was saying, strong dominant personalities are often attracted to more laid back people and vice versa.

2 strong personalities can fight a lot, and 2 people who are too laid back won't get anything done lol.  Very strong personalities can be difficult to deal with, and sometimes the people who can put up with them over the long term are the laid back types who have a lot of patience.  We often tend to settle with people who can put up with our bullshit.

For opposites, male is opposite to female, so that works.  I think it might be an evolutionary thing.  It seems to work well when we partner with people who have the qualities we lack, and vice versa.  This makes for a good team that can successful raise a family.

Well depends how you define "dominant" i guess.  "Dominant" in sexuality usually means someone who likes to take the lead.

Depends how you define "strong" I guess. "Strong" as relates to sexuality usually means they like to have a lot of sex, not that they need to be "dominant" in doing so.

Well depends how you define "dominant" i guess.  "Dominant" in sexuality usually means someone who likes to take the lead.

So I guess my point still stands, with your definition.  I have usually ended up with roughly equals.

Do you actually think men who like big boobs do so because they are thinking about how well a potential baby could be fed? Funny.

No, it's completely unconscious.

Men also love to suck on nipples, i wonder if there's something Freudian about that.

I would think the female was more focused on bearing her child, than removing the clothing from her other children.

bear - give birth to
bare - remove clothing

* note there are many alternative definitions for both words as well.

I was under the impression that most babies were bare as they were born. I know I was.

My appreciation of the shapes of women certainly isn't from my unconscious. My conscious may affect my unconscious and therefore fire up some erotic dreams while I sleep.

What i'm saying is we don't typically control what we're attracted to.  Desire for big boobs comes from the unconscious.  I like them and I don't know why. the only explanation I can think of is evolutionary psychology.

What i'm saying is we don't typically control what we're attracted to.  Desire for big boobs comes from the unconscious.  I like them and I don't know why. the only explanation I can think of is evolutionary psychology.

Why do some cultures like certain kinds of food that Canadians would generally find repulsive? In the nature vs. nurture debate, I would say those many years I spent in school influenced my desire for big boobs - middle school probably being the most influential. I don't think it is entirely a one sided debate, but we shouldn't ignore the other side as well.