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Offline JMT

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Re: Personal Stuff
« Reply #975 on: December 22, 2019, 02:32:11 pm »
I just keep getting wrapped up with the wrong person over and over again.  IDK why I let this happen.

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« Reply #976 on: December 22, 2019, 08:43:58 pm »
I just keep getting wrapped up with the wrong person over and over again.  IDK why I let this happen.

You should think about why.   It may help extricate you.

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« Reply #977 on: December 23, 2019, 05:39:57 am »
We're at the point now where the extremes of Easy's mood will decide how we feel in our day.

We are in Collingwood, in north snowy country, for the week.  We left Saturday and he was difficult and it made things unbearably difficult.  We had to take a 15 minute nap at noon just to get sorted.  Yesterday some friends were visiting their mom locally so we got invited to family christmas and E was just a rockstar: cute, smiley....

Merry Christmas folks...

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« Reply #978 on: December 23, 2019, 10:36:16 am »
We're at the point now where the extremes of Easy's mood will decide how we feel in our day.

We are in Collingwood, in north snowy country, for the week.  We left Saturday and he was difficult and it made things unbearably difficult.  We had to take a 15 minute nap at noon just to get sorted.  Yesterday some friends were visiting their mom locally so we got invited to family christmas and E was just a rockstar: cute, smiley....

Merry Christmas folks...

Hey you're just a hop and a skip from my old stompin' ground. (Bracebridge) I made a lot of tracks in that snow up there. Hope you enjoy it and Merry Christmas to you guys.

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« Reply #979 on: December 23, 2019, 01:56:56 pm »
Hey you're just a hop and a skip from my old stompin' ground. (Bracebridge) I made a lot of tracks in that snow up there. Hope you enjoy it and Merry Christmas to you guys.

Why thanks.  It's so lovely up here.  Ontario really gets fantastic when you get east of Port Hope and north of Barrie.

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Re: Personal Stuff
« Reply #980 on: December 24, 2019, 05:19:07 pm »
I started therapy with the better help app.
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« Reply #981 on: December 24, 2019, 06:25:44 pm »
Merry Christmas, everyone!  Remember the reason for the season. Remember, if your Yuletide doesn't include the Yulfadr, you've just got ... tide.  Keep Odin in Christmas!

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« Reply #982 on: December 24, 2019, 08:06:54 pm »
Something odd seeped in there...

Well, Merry Christmas then  :D

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« Reply #983 on: December 24, 2019, 08:45:03 pm »
Merry Christmas, everyone!  Remember the reason for the season. Remember, if your Yuletide doesn't include the Yulfadr, you've just got ... tide.  Keep Odin in Christmas!

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Hope everyone has an excellent Christmas or whatever they may call it.
"Never trust a man without a single redeeming vice" WSC
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« Reply #984 on: December 25, 2019, 11:12:12 am »
I'm about as low as can **** be again....I don't think I'll ever get better.
Sorry to hear that, JMT. Winter blues pack a wallop on top of other things. All those things they tell you to do do help - going for a walk, eating well, taking vitamins. What saved me when I hit the the black hole was pushing myself out the door to go out for breakfast every day, and then I was gradually able to socialize again.  Although isolating yourself too much has its downside, I found I also got to know, trust, forgive and respect myself in those long solo episodes. 
Don't attach yourself to anyone who brings you down.

It will get better, and you will get better at making that happen. You are in control.  ;)
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« Reply #985 on: December 27, 2019, 01:21:05 pm »
I just keep getting wrapped up with the wrong person over and over again.  IDK why I let this happen.
We have all done this for years. Youíre learning. Itís completely  normal.

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« Reply #986 on: December 28, 2019, 05:19:35 pm »
???

Hope everyone has an excellent Christmas or whatever they may call it.
Something odd seeped in there...

Well, Merry Christmas then  :D

My peeps were celebrating Yule at Winter Solstice for centuries before Jesus came along.  Drinking, feasting, bonfires, straw goats being set ablaze, fertility rites, and lots of other festivities intended to persuade Odin and the other gods to bring the sun back.

We had a nice Christmas. I gave her jewels, which made her cry. We skyped with her brother's family, and with her parents. We also had drinking, feasting, fertility rites, and other festivities, but no bonfires or straw goats set ablaze.

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« Reply #987 on: January 06, 2020, 01:25:12 pm »
Home sick from work today. :(

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« Reply #988 on: January 06, 2020, 05:26:37 pm »
Is it The Cold? Hit everyone around here. Think it was a Christmas gift from our youngest grand daughter.
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« Reply #989 on: January 06, 2020, 05:41:30 pm »
It was weird - almost a 2 week Christmas break because the stat holidays were square in the middle of the week.

That said, Jan 2nd it seemed like downtown was almost the usual level of busy.  Going back was weird, but I tackled the week all fresh n stuff ...