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« Reply #795 on: June 16, 2019, 07:19:42 am »
My 1st Father's Day!
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« Reply #796 on: June 16, 2019, 11:24:36 am »
My 1st Father's Day!
Happy Fathers Day, MH!
Enjoy the moments.
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« Reply #797 on: June 17, 2019, 05:54:06 pm »
I am sorry to hear that, and I know the feeling. I have an urn that sits on the mantle above my fireplace that holds the ashes of Archie, my old tabby. I watched him come into the world and enjoyed his company for 17 years. We do get attached to them for sure. Again my condolences.

We still have the ashes of our last Lab. We keep saying we are going to spread them in a park where we used to take him but haven't got around to it.
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« Reply #798 on: June 17, 2019, 06:06:45 pm »
We still have the ashes of our last Lab. We keep saying we are going to spread them in a park where we used to take him but haven't got around to it.

I'm sure he'll be happy at home, or in the park if/when you take him there. Both familiar turf.

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« Reply #799 on: June 17, 2019, 09:30:34 pm »
We still have the ashes of our last Lab. We keep saying we are going to spread them in a park where we used to take him but haven't got around to it.

In our house we have the ashes of two grandparents, an aunt, a Border Collie/English Sheepdog cross, an Australian Shepherd, and a cat.  We have no idea what to do with them, either.
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« Reply #800 on: June 17, 2019, 10:16:32 pm »
I was in Edmonton last week visiting my family.  Had a good talk with dad.  Managed to not punch mom's face in.  Visited with little brother.   Things are more normal now, I can see my family without drama or kung-fu happening.

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« Reply #801 on: June 18, 2019, 05:59:30 am »
Hoping its figurative Kung Fu.

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« Reply #802 on: June 20, 2019, 08:57:20 pm »
Hoping its figurative Kung Fu.

You're a sweet boy, Michael. Don't ever change.

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« Reply #803 on: June 24, 2019, 03:54:36 am »
My special girl was wondering why I don't do "kiss kissing". Meaning with lots of tongue.   So we spent about an hour doing that the other night. She thought it was wonderful.

I didn't want to tell her that I just don't like it.

I feel very strange about this. With all the other things I enjoy doing in bed, this is the thing that makes me uncomfortable. I don't get it. I find it slimy and gross and get no pleasure from it at all, and it even set off my gag reflex a couple of times the other night. I want to make her happy, and this seems important to her, but for me it's difficult.  I don't understand why everybody else seems to love this and I find it unpleasant.

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« Reply #804 on: June 24, 2019, 05:28:51 am »
I don't understand why everybody else seems to love this and I find it unpleasant.

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There's no natural human drive to 'kiss'.  When I was young, it was exciting.  It's still a nice thing to do but... to do it for a long time ?

It's a gateway to other activities AFAIAC. 

I remember reading a survey of gay men and kissing and was surprised how many didn't want to kiss AT ALL.  ("I would rather suck *** **** than kiss him.")  But with people we care about we do things to make them happy. 

To pretend to be into it for a long time shows you are a giving person.

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« Reply #805 on: June 25, 2019, 09:26:22 pm »
Easy's got to learn to sleep through the night.  Stop cryin' little guy.   :(

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« Reply #806 on: June 27, 2019, 11:35:09 am »
Easy's starting to sleep easy.  Starting to crawl though - uh oh.

I am in bliss, although our sex life alas has declined and I'm out of answers on that :(

And tomorrow is WFH then I'm on parental leave with Joan & E for almost 2 months :)

I can't complain (but sometimes I still do)

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« Reply #807 on: July 03, 2019, 03:54:41 am »
My special girl's brother and his family were in town this weekend, and she wanted me to meet them.  This was kind of weird for me, because I've never really thought she was very serious about "us".  Now she's introducing me to her family and talking about us like we're a couple. I've had a feeling from day one that I was just something she was into until she met her next boyfriend, but lately I've been wondering if this is more "real" than I thought and that is both exciting and scary.

So, we spent a day with her brother and his wife and their kids, which was kind of okay. Her brother is super-chill and didn't seem fazed at all. The sister-in-law is a bad-ass eastern European who talks like Natasha from the Rocky and Bullwinkle show.  I enjoyed talking with them.

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« Reply #808 on: July 03, 2019, 07:50:53 am »
My special girl's brother and his family were in town this weekend, and she wanted me to meet them.  This was kind of weird for me, because I've never really thought she was very serious about "us".  Now she's introducing me to her family and talking about us like we're a couple. I've had a feeling from day one that I was just something she was into until she met her next boyfriend, but lately I've been wondering if this is more "real" than I thought and that is both exciting and scary.

So, we spent a day with her brother and his wife and their kids, which was kind of okay. Her brother is super-chill and didn't seem fazed at all. The sister-in-law is a bad-ass eastern European who talks like Natasha from the Rocky and Bullwinkle show.  I enjoyed talking with them.

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Very dry post for you.  Maybe this is a reflection of your realization ?  How do you feel about long-term relationships ?  What's the longest you have been in/longest you can see yourself in ?

I'm Catholic so we mate for life.
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« Reply #809 on: July 03, 2019, 03:37:16 pm »
My house is being renovated....   6 weeks of living in a camper...   :'(