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Offline SirJohn

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« Reply #465 on: November 18, 2018, 02:22:18 pm »
I had a great time! :)

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« Reply #466 on: November 18, 2018, 02:26:11 pm »
And it went well

Off to a good start then.
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« Reply #467 on: November 18, 2018, 09:12:51 pm »
And it went well

Slump-busters! *high-five*    ;D

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« Reply #468 on: November 18, 2018, 09:53:17 pm »
Your career as an erotic writer is off to a poor start!

I wasn't going to get too detailed.  :p

We spent an hour drinking and talking, then we came home to my place and spent several hours playing in bed, then she went home to feed her cat. Which is not a euphemism for anything, she has a literal cat that eats cat food. 

It was pretty tame, but very pleasant. She considers herself a flexitarian... she's done this before, it's not her usual thing but she wanted to give it a go. She's fed up with guys for the time being. She said she gave me her card because she didn't think I was ever going to ask her if she didn't give me a nudge. I asked why she didn't just ask me, and she gave me sort of a blank look like I was asking a completely inane question.  Dating girls is complicated.  I think we're doing this again. I think she had fun too.

She's pretty and feminine, but there's something just a touch tomboyish about her.  At work she wears minimal makeup, a simple slightly messy hairstyle, tight jeans and a loose t-shirt and knee-high leather boots.  She wore the exact same thing to our date, which kind of surprised me. I was sort of expecting a blouse and some makeup, but nope.  She's kind of tall and lanky-- even though she's thinner than me, she's also softer than me. Pouring drinks and waiting tables might be all the exercise she gets. In spite of that I find her really attractive.  I'm just really excited right now. I feel like has potential.


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« Reply #469 on: November 19, 2018, 03:03:51 pm »
flexitarian? I had to look that up.

I only see it referenced in diet, someone that tries to maintain somewhat of a vegetarian diet but still eats meat on occasion. One could call it cheating on their vegetarian diet. Applied here it sound like how it was described, not her usual thing but she is willing to cheat now and then when fed up with man diet.




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« Reply #470 on: November 19, 2018, 04:30:48 pm »
flexitarian? I had to look that up.
 still eats meat on occasion.
Seems like the right definition  :D
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« Reply #471 on: November 20, 2018, 02:29:24 am »
flexitarian? I had to look that up.

I only see it referenced in diet, someone that tries to maintain somewhat of a vegetarian diet but still eats meat on occasion. One could call it cheating on their vegetarian diet. Applied here it sound like how it was described, not her usual thing but she is willing to cheat now and then when fed up with man diet.

I kinda figured my meaning would be clear from the context...

Seems like the right definition  :D

AUGH!

What is it with you guys and your talk of "meat" and "hoses" today??

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« Reply #472 on: November 20, 2018, 02:33:19 am »
AMUSING !

MICHAEL!

How is young MC EZ-E doing?  How is the parenting going?   You seem to have more time for posting here lately! Does that mean you're getting a handle on the parenting gig?


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« Reply #473 on: November 20, 2018, 06:53:54 am »
MICHAEL!

How is young MC EZ-E doing?  How is the parenting going?   You seem to have more time for posting here lately! Does that mean you're getting a handle on the parenting gig?


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Easy is good.  Parenting is tough at times and when we get into the weeds we're all stressed and underfed and tired and sometimes several of us are crying.  I have little ten minute blotches of time to post which is great. 

The key is that Easy can sleep 2-3 hours at a stretch, so we have to work around that.  The 'night shift' is... Joan sleeps from about 8 pm or 9 pm to midnight then I go to bed for 6 to 6.5 hours of *uninterrupted* sleep.  She tends to him overnight and he is sometimes up a few hours.

We even went to a restaurant on Saturday !
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« Reply #474 on: November 26, 2018, 04:03:00 am »
We had date #2 on Saturday.  There's a joke/trope/stereotype that goes "what does a lesbian bring on a 2nd date?  A U-Haul."   The idea, I guess, is that lesbians tend to fall for each other really hard, decide "omg she's THE ONE", and move in together in a rush of excitement.  That has never been my experience.  My experience has been that these things start cautiously.  I'm fully aware that she's not committed to this as anything more than some fleeting fun.  The "flexitarian" thing is something that she might grow out of or fully commit to or whatever.  I started having sex with women 15 years ago... for the past 10 years it's been exclusively women... and it's only just recently that I've kind of realized "yeah, I think I might be gay."  I am very aware that for her this might just be a step on her journey.  For the time being, it's fun.


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« Reply #475 on: November 26, 2018, 06:18:57 am »
What is in this for you, in terms of her as a person ? 

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« Reply #476 on: November 26, 2018, 09:41:18 am »
ummmm....  not sure yet.   It's mostly sex at this point.  I'd like it to be more. Hopefully it at least gets to the "friends with benefits" stage, but right now it's mostly just benefits, the friendship is still a work in progress.




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« Reply #477 on: November 26, 2018, 09:44:14 am »
I made some really dumb mistakes the last couple weeks.  I got drawn back in by the person that left me behind 9 months ago.  It turns out she was just using my for emotional support and plain support.

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« Reply #478 on: November 26, 2018, 09:46:30 am »
AUGH!  Stop doing that! 

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« Reply #479 on: November 26, 2018, 09:47:27 am »
I made some really dumb mistakes the last couple weeks.  I got drawn back in by the person that left me behind 9 months ago.  It turns out she was just using my for emotional support and plain support.
Don't beat yourself up over it. This stuff happens. You seem much more clear-headed about the situation now than you were at the time.