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« Reply #75 on: May 24, 2018, 01:05:57 am »
Well, sure ... but curiosity didn't kill the cat, at least not right away...

I know... I just don't want to get caught up in some kind of Patrick Brown type of thing.

You seem to be at that age where you can trade up to older, or down to younger... or something.  When I was 32 I took a break from my 24-year old girlfriend to date a 50-year old.  The 24-year old was quite jealous and they almost met up at a play I was in.... hoo-boy. 

This encounter kind of caught me by surprise. I didn't go in with the intention of becoming a MILF-hunter. And the idea of being with someone that much older than me isn't normally something I'd be that interested in.  I had just sort of on a whim decided to view the property, as it's close by and I have always liked the house from the outside. I thought this might be my only chance to see the inside.  She's charismatic and engaging, as sales-people often are. She obviously puts a lot of work into her appearance... my guess is that she's in her early 50s, give or take. She's good looking for her age.  Tan, bleached hair, fairly fit, probably spends a fair amount of time on a treadmill or doing yoga or something like that. Implants, but not comedy-sized ones.  I don't have a lot of experience with real estate people, but it seems like many of them put a lot of work into their appearance. Anyway, she looks pretty good with clothes on, and I found myself wondering if she'd look good naked or if she'd have old lady wrinkles everywhere. Maybe she picked up on my curiosity, I dunno.  So we're getting together for drinks tomorrow. 


I just met up with a girl pal (never dated) from university last night.  Don't know how she does it - she is in her 50s and chubby and never goes without a guy for long.  She is on a break with her boyfriend, and right away met a younger dude who is pleasuring her while the boyfriend (none the wiser) figures out if he wants to commit to a relationship.  To those of you singles who meet people at the rate of one a year or more, congratulations.  I know many who go years without a date.  Maybe they don't try.

Some people are blessed with personality and people-skills that let them navigate social situations with ease.  Others are blessed with kim-bobbles.  If it came down to social skills and personality, I'd be so screwed.

Separate discussion with my gal pal from last night:

She said she would end a marriage over lack of sex, no question.  Would you ?  I would not.  I would end it through cruelty, or desperate circumstances but not that.  If love is there then I am showing up.

As I've mentioned before, I'm a severe introvert at heart, and the idea of wanting a constant companion is pretty alien to me. That makes the idea of marriage itself pretty alien to me... so maybe I'm not qualified to say what I'd end a marriage over.  When I do crave companionship, physical intimacy is one of the things I crave most.


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« Reply #76 on: May 24, 2018, 06:18:57 am »
I'll have to work this into an upcoming episode.   I'm suspicious of this new guy. Maybe he works for Ooblik? 

Sorry to hear you're on unsteady ground. :(

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I have 2 other interviews and I have never been in more demand.  It's more the sadness of having to leave again... and of being shunned.  It really does hurt.
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« Reply #77 on: May 24, 2018, 06:21:57 am »
   When I do crave companionship, physical intimacy is one of the things I crave most.


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Me too, but that's not sex either.  You can have physical intimacy and sex, but not from the same person... or from one person and yourself...

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« Reply #78 on: May 24, 2018, 09:07:38 am »
Me too, but that's not sex either.  You can have physical intimacy and sex, but not from the same person... or from one person and yourself...

I have been an angry incel for like 2 months, and it's getting to me.  I'm not quite agitated enough to rent a van yet, but I definitely need to get things sorted out quickly.  Especially with summer here... I'm running and rowing and cycling and lifting, so my body is just constantly full of energy. And now it's beach season, which is driving me even more mental.  Pretty much every time I venture outside.  hnnnngggggghh.   At this point, when I say I'm craving physical intimacy, I pretty much mean sex.

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« Reply #79 on: May 24, 2018, 09:19:16 am »
Ah well... at least you're exercising.  You have options and for an introvert you seem to get a few.  Stick with it - you're winning !

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« Reply #80 on: May 25, 2018, 01:08:09 pm »
Interview this afternoon.  Wish me luck !   ;D
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« Reply #81 on: May 25, 2018, 05:17:16 pm »
Wow.  Well that sucked.  I think I feel worse about myself after that interview.  Two asian ladies, much younger than me and with not much experience but holy **** they were smart.  I bombed but... worse... my view of my recent project experience is downgraded.

Old dog needs a new trick....  :'(

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« Reply #82 on: May 25, 2018, 10:18:25 pm »
Wow.  Well that sucked.  I think I feel worse about myself after that interview.  Two asian ladies, much younger than me and with not much experience but holy **** they were smart.  I bombed but... worse... my view of my recent project experience is downgraded.

Old dog needs a new trick....  :'(

No!  Mikaru not sucko!  Mikaru goodo! Mikaru greato!


Sorry to hear your interview was not a success.

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« Reply #83 on: May 25, 2018, 10:54:48 pm »
On the bright side my date turned out pretty good.

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« Reply #84 on: May 26, 2018, 06:42:01 am »
On the bright side my date turned out pretty good.

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Oh ?  Well that's nice.  Do you have a new friend ?  What's the story ?  The cougary real-estate lady seems like a different breed from you.  Is she a kindred spirit ?

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« Reply #85 on: May 27, 2018, 05:23:51 am »
Oh ?  Well that's nice.  Do you have a new friend ?  What's the story ?  The cougary real-estate lady seems like a different breed from you.  Is she a kindred spirit ?
We're polar opposites, personality wise.  She's a talker, the kind who needs to talk even if she doesn't have anything interesting to say. I guess that's not surprising considering her line of work. She seems like the sort of person who loves being the center of attention, loves being with loud groups of friends and being at loud parties.  I don't see relationship potential, and I don't think she has any interest in that anyway.  I think she sees this as a booty-call while she's between relationships with men. Which is completely fine with me.  She's energetic and assertive and fun, and definitely not new at this.  After spending months with FOB types, that's a nice change.

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« Reply #86 on: May 27, 2018, 06:36:13 am »
After spending months with FOB types, that's a nice change.
 

Ok.  FOB... Free on Board ?  or Fresh off the Boat ?   ???

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« Reply #87 on: May 27, 2018, 11:21:28 am »
Ok.  FOB... Free on Board ?  or Fresh off the Boat ?   ???

Fresh Off Boat.    I don't mind being a tour-guide, it can be fun.  But being with someone who is experienced and confident and can take charge is exciting.

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« Reply #88 on: May 27, 2018, 12:24:56 pm »
OOlp  I missed the context.  Thought you were talking about immigrants.

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« Reply #89 on: May 27, 2018, 12:39:00 pm »
OOlp  I missed the context.  Thought you were talking about immigrants.

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hahah, no!  Not that I'd be opposed to that. Just that it seems like people I was meeting were very new to the sex part of things. Curious, or inexperienced, or unsure. 

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