1. He was gaslighting me in ways big and small for years, and when he met a particular woman, the gaslighting increased exponentially along with verbal abuse, so I had no choice but to realize something was wrong, even if I didn'tknow what, exactly.
2. Took me a while to figure this all out, at the time it was just confusing and painful (undestatement of the year). Now I feel stupid for falling for him in the first place.
3. But until the last lady showed up, I did enjoy the poly aspect of our relationshop.
1. Why would he do that if your relationship was open though ?
2. Sorry
3. Why was it enjoyable ?