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Offline Montgomery

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Re: Personal Stuff
« Reply #1290 on: October 28, 2020, 12:03:49 pm »
I don't know if having kids is 'selfish'.  My perspective on it sure changed after I had a kid. 

But if having a kid is selfish, then working hard for someone you love is selfish and maybe everything is selfish.

But ok - there is no right answer. 

We don't have a choice here, time is up for us if we don't conceive in the next few months, that's how the process goes.

I'm not going to allow you to make out that I'm suggesting that having children is selfish, regardless of whether you're deliberately doing that or not. My comments were clear on the decision being made in a time when Covid could prove to be much worse than anyone expected.

And as I said, I expressed my values and preferences so you should express yours.

Show your resolve and don't allow me to be a part of your conscience!
It was believed afterward that the man was a lunatic, because there was no sense in what he said. ~M.T.