I'm glad people can be honest about their sexual lives on here. I can't find it in myself to do this.
Kimmy's story sounds like a softcore/romcom hybrid movie that simultaneously this at the heartstrings and nether regions simultaneously.
Graham's is like a Mad Magazine/Portnoy's Complaint hybrid, ie. mad magazine with whacking it. Also viable as a movie.
It sounds like Coonlight's story has a fair amount of tugging as well.
-k