I'm not sure how I'd start that conversation without causing her to panic... If I try and express the idea that I'm not sure that "she's the one", she's going to think I've already decided that she isn't the one. I feel like I have to figure out what I actually want before I try to have that conversation with her.
-k
I was never able to handle that conversation - no matter which side I was on, no matter how I felt. If I felt she was the one, I didn't want to show my cards. If I didn't, I didn't want to scare her away.