Just had a friend over... and we realized the last time we saw each other was a big show we did 2 years ago... drinking and smoking cigarettes afterwards until 3 am...
Now he's been diagnosed with heart condition and us diagnosed with a baby
we had a no-salt dinner, no booze, no cigarettes. Things change pretty quickly. 2 years isn't "quick" but for a change like this it is.
I can actually feel myself getting boring. I feel fulfilled and contented but I have empathy for a whole different approach to life now - slower and more careful.