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Offline kimmy

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Re: Personal Stuff
« Reply #285 on: October 18, 2018, 09:33:33 am »
Maybe he's trying a new tactic to get you on his side.  Since his "way" is so alien to you, you didn't pick up on the motivation and it seemed weird ?

I have a sense that this was just another in his series of attempts at witty banter, and he's just oblivious as to how lame they are.

The last few suggestions would be a 'hit on' thing. 

Comments can have a sexual tint to them without being a pick-up attempt.  In this case I think it was just trivializing and dismissive, without being sexual on top of that.

It sounds like he desperately wants to be liked.  And you do not like him.

I hadn't considered this.

I have been feeling like the ousider... he's known many of my co-workers for ages, and I have been feeling insecure all over again.  It hadn't occurred to me that maybe he's feeling insecure as well.

Masked for your safety.