You are doing the exact thing that I was talking about. One guy is accused of attempted ****... in which the woman has mentioned this to a therapist and her husband over the decades since... the other was some nebulous incident (a grope? I don't even know) where he apologized to the person at the time and the victim (if you want to call her that) didn't bring it up further.
Those are not the same thing, and yet you made them the same thing. Why?
Political bias would be my guess.