I don't remember seeing him supporting a "patriarchal social order" or being "anti- woman" lol. He's for equal opportunity for women and men, he's just not for forcing equal outcomes.
“The people who hold that our culture is an oppressive patriarchy, they don’t want to admit that the current hierarchy might be predicated on competence."
I don't remember him saying men shouldn't cry. No psychologist would advocate that. He said stand up straight as a means to project confidence in yourself, not to avoid being effeminate, and he wasn't talking specifically about men.
I didn't say he did, but there's no question he's a big believer in traditional masculinity and its norms. He says the idea of toxic masculinity is "a lie" and male aggression is innate. He's very much bound to some very, let's say, traditional ideas of masculinity and its expressions, but he leaks like a busted water fountain and I find that contrast to be quite funny, but I'm becoming inclined to think the crying this is actually a bit he's doing.
If you'd like to misrepresent his arguments more please keep going.
Everything I claim is drawn from things he's said.