Maybe you should come to terms with the reality that a lot of your beliefs, cares and concerns are pretty far out there, by comparison with the greater population, and that it isn't everyone else who is the extremist, but you. If you think any substantial portion of the population ever even thinks about, much less cares about trans whatever people you're kidding yourself.
I'm sorry, but if you think that trans people and their concerns didn't exist until a year or so ago, you've been living under a rock. End of story. I don't give a
**** whether you care about trans people or not, but to pretend that nobody was talking about them or concerned with what was going on is so tone deaf that it makes me laugh. Do you think LGBT was an acronym that was just made up last year or something? These have been concerns for as long as I can remember. Hell, there's been movies about trans people for decades, so they've even been part of popular culture.
I don't think you're an extremist, I just find you utterly clueless about the world you live in.