1. This sounds like asking permission: "do you think I might be able to put more money into a car if I chose to "
No. It was a question of ability to do it, not whether you think someone should do it.
2. The single most massive stupidity in my life. Friends of mine bought downtown for $300K while I was saying "nope nope". I am actually a **** moron - please note for any future rebukes.