A teacher buys a poor student a winter jacket because his father lost his job and his family can’t afford it this year. That’s equity. That’s fair.
The rich kid in the class whines to the principal that the teacher should buy ALL the students in the class a winter coat because that’s equality. That’s your position right now.
No, that's your weird analogy which has little or nothing to do with my position. Let's leave aside your belief that all people who are not white males are poverty stricken, helpless and in need of help - which is amazingly paternalistic, btw - we're talking here about letting people get away with disrespecting others due to race because they have a favored skin pigmentation.
Your proper analogy would be if two boys punch two other boys without provocation. Teacher ignores the black boy who punched the white boy but gasps in horror at the white boy who punched a black boy and drags him down to the Vice Principal to demand he be expelled.